Friday afternoon’s memorial service for Dr Glenn Black of Oriel was sublime, both in the general sense of ‘celestially beautiful’ and in the more technical sense of ‘so surpassing comprehension as to inspire awe’. I knew Glenn only very, very casually. We met at Burns Night at Oriel, where Margaret and I were sat next to, or near to, them. He introduced himself and said, ‘I believe you know my daughter.’ I had only just met Imogen once, I think, at that point in my time at Oxford, so it took quite a tour of my mental rolodex to put together Glenn’s last name with the quiet, but pointedly witty priest I had met in Michaelmas. After that, our paths crossed only rarely and briefly, to my regret. My impression of him was of a learned and graceful pillar of college and University life, and subsequent narration proved that impression sound. I have had the favourable providence to count Imogen a friend, and when Glenn died last winter I was particularly touched on her behalf, as Margaret and I were doing our best to handle the deaths of her mother and my sister.
The service was conducted by my colleague the Revd Dr Rob Wainwright, Chaplain of Oriel, with support from the Oriel Choir, but the ritual burden was borne by addresses from a colleague of Glenn’s from University College, from one of Glenn’s students, and from my colleague at Oriel Dr Katie Murphy. Each bespoke the distinctive privilege of having known him respectively as classmate and colleague, as his student, and as his successor as Tutor of English at Oriel. Each revealed precious anecdotes, well-told, and incandescent with the honour and dignity, humility and grace of a man who was an Oxford tutor par excellence. I hope to retrieve the addresses at some point; they will remind me of the heights of my aspirations, and of the distance of my attainments from Glenn’s. In this, they remind me of the testimonies to my own father.
When I got home (an hour and a half, roughly, on the Friday afternoon roadworks-and-an-ring-road-accident X3 route) I was utterly wrung out, and was weary most of Saturday as well.
So I didn’t run yesterday; instead, I walked my two-mile route, with very occasional, very brief intervals of trying out a running pace to see… no, that just won’t do either.
This morning I did run, a decent pace, then coffee and fruit breakfast at home, then I attended the 10:30 service at St Helen’s, home to work on my address for the Healing and Wholeness service, then led the service, now home for dinner with Margaret.
God bless us, every one.